Emotional intelligence and kindness

Lupa’s Harbor

A safe harbor for big feelings. Here you learn to notice what you feel, give it a name, pause, and breathe, so you can choose what to do next.

Your feelings are welcome here.

Lupa and a girl sitting with eyes closed by the sea, with the words Find Your Calm Within.

The journey

Ten steps with Lupa

Each step is a small skill you can practise anywhere: at school, at home, or before bed.

  1. Lupa with a glowing heart sitting beside a smiling girl.

    Notice

    The feeling appears. All feelings are welcome here.

  2. Lupa and children holding feeling cards.

    Name

    Say what you feel. Feelings are signals, not problems.

  3. Lupa sitting calmly with one paw raised by the sea.

    Pause

    Create the space. A small pause creates a big choice.

  4. A boy and Lupa breathing calmly side by side.

    Breathe

    Use the anchor tool. Breathe. Feel. Be steady inside.

  5. A girl pointing at a feelings chart while Lupa watches.

    Practice

    Use your feeling chart. I can notice and share my feelings.

  6. Lupa curled up beside a sleeping child.

    Rest & Reset

    A calmer tomorrow. Good sleep helps my mind and heart.

  7. Children hiking with Lupa past a waterfall.

    Nature

    Move. Explore. Feel better. Nature helps me feel calm, focused and happy.

  8. A girl painting a rainbow heart with Lupa.

    Express

    Creativity helps me heal. I can show my feelings in many ways.

  9. Lupa in a big group hug with children.

    Together

    Kind minds, bright futures. We are stronger together.

  10. A child and Lupa watching the sunset by a lighthouse.

    A Brighter Tomorrow

    More self-awareness. More kindness. A kinder world.

Try it now

Breathing Anchor Tool: 4-4-6

Breathe in for 4, hold for 4, and breathe out for 6. A longer breath out helps your body slow down. Follow the glowing circle with Lupa.

Ready

Feelings check-in

How do I feel today?

Tap the feeling that fits best. There are no wrong answers.

Your choice stays on this screen only. It isn’t saved or sent anywhere. If a feeling is too big to handle alone, talk to a grown-up you trust.

Coming soon

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